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How to Be a Supportive Partner to a Sickle Cell Patient


Supportive Partner to a SCD Patient

Is your partner living with sickle cell disease and you are still trying to figure out how to be a fully supportive partner? This important topic is rarely covered, though lots of people want to learn how to care for their partners with SCD. Support, help or guidance when necessary for any SCD patient is more than important physically and mentally.

Educate yourself on SCD

Learn to be proactive when it comes to taking care of your partner especially if he/she is a SCD patient. Loving your partner well begins with learning enough about him/her. In this case, it requires putting in some work on sickle cell disease education. Educate yourself using resources such as the internet (suzzymuketips blog) and social media platforms, Instagram and YouTube as well as local and national organizations.

Whether you’re in the UK, USA, Australia, Canada like me, or in an African country, you can link to sickle cell charities and if they are not there, try talking to doctors for more information about treatments, DOs and DON’Ts, handling pain crisis and more. You would be off to a great start if you do the above.

Cultivate good communication skills

Not everyone living with SCD gets the same effects overtime. So, don’t expect your partner’s condition to be the same as that of someone you might know. Understanding the science of the condition and focusing on good communication helps to keep your partner feeling supportive, cared for, helped and loved. Also note that a Google search is not enough to explain how sickle cell affects your sweet heart. So, implement and communicate what you’ve learned smartly and let your partner share his/her history, pain, experiences and feelings with you. Build an environment of transparency in your relationship. This enables the patient in your life to feel free to open up about how sickle cell is affecting them and what they can do or not do at any given moment.

Become a responsible advocate

Be there for your darling and advocate for their health in every positive way possible. You can do so by trying to understand their condition, medication regime, treatment plans, and medical appointment. What a supportive better-half you would be if you care for your partner with SCD this way!

To be a responsible advocate, endeavour to have useful discussions to make you familiar with the patient’s treatment preferences. With that, you can advocate for them as an informed partner anytime they’re incapacitated or need help.

Remember that a lot of hospital treatment for crises depends on strong opioids that can knock a SCD patient out. This means a patient may hardly always be in their right frame of mind to advocate for themselves. My husband is always there to assist me when need be.

Encourage flexibility

Remember that sickle cell patients often experience fatigue. So, you and your partner should be proactive by building flexibility into your daily plans. Such should be plans with room for changes even at the last minute. Please avoid making the sickle cell patient in your life feel guilty in case they are obliged to cancel or postpone plans. Moreover, make alternative plans at home that involve adequate rest.

Let me point out that this list is not exhaustive as there are other ways you can explore to support the sickle cell patient in your life. In addition to the ideas we have discussed above, please discuss with your partner/patient in your life to understand what he/she wants and needs.

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